08 [Tuesdays with Morrie]

Tuesdays with Morrie
08. The Ninth Tuesday / The Tenth Tuesday
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50분 리딩하고 이렇게 매일 일지를 정리하다니.
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달려라하니,의 홍두깨선생 성우로 유명하신 분이 트위터에서 [마음을 전하당]이란 곳을 만드셨다
마음으로 전하는 message를 음성으로 전해주시겠다니!
자신이 있는 것으로 다른 사람을 기쁘게 할 수 있다는 것이 너무 행복하다는 말씀!

이런 식!
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모리교수에게 배운 것을 실천하는 사람을 딱! 만나다니!
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Talk About How Love Goes On amd Marriage.

If I worried about being forgotten after I died?

죽은 후에 사랑하는 사람들에게 내 존재가 잊혀질까 두렵지 않냐는 질문.

Love is how you stay alive, even after you are gone.

혼자 있을때나 집에 들어갈 때, 차안에 있을 때 내 목소리가 들린적이 있지?
Do you ever hear my voice sometimes when you're back home?
When you're all alone?
Maybe on the plane? Maybe in your car?"

내 목소리를 생각해. 그럼 나는 그 곳에 있는거야.
Then you will not forget me after I'm gone. Think of my voice and I'll be there."
매우 로맨틱. 

Think of your voice.

They worked as a team, often needing no more than a silent glance to understand what the other was thinking.

If you don't respect the other person, you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
If you don't know how to compromise, you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
If you can't talk openly about what goes on between you, you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
And if you don't have a common set of values in life, you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
Your values must be alike.

나도 이런 관계!


마지막 선생님

모리교수의 묘비명, A Teacher to the Last

내 인생에도 많은 선생님들이 있구나


모리교수의 좋은 점을 나도 배우자

"I believe in being fully present," Morrie said.
"That means you should be with the person you're with.
When I'm talking to you now, Mitch, I try to keep focused only on what is going on between us.
I am not thinking about something we said last week.
I am not thinking of what's coming up this Friday.
I am not thinking about doing another Koppel show, or about what medications I'm taking.

He was always ready to openly display the emotion so often missing from my baby boomer generation.
We are great at small talk: "What do you do?" "Where do you live?"
But really listening to someone-without trying to sell them something,
pick them up, recruit them, or get some kind of status in return-
how often do we get this anymore?

I believe many visitors in the last few months of Morrie's life were drawn
not because of the attention they wanted to pay to him but
because of the attention he paid to them.
Despite his personal pain and decay, this little old man listened the way
they always wanted someone to listen.

사람과 있을 때 현재에 충실.
대화할 때 다른 것을 생각하지 않는 점. 역시 a wonderful listener. "I am talking to you. I am thinking about you."

현재에 충실해야하는 것.

"Part of the problem is that everyone is in such a hurry.
"People haven't found meaning in their lives, so they're running all the time looking for it.
They think the next car, the next house, the next job.
Then they find those things are empty, too, and they keep running."

Once you start running, it's hard to slow yourself down.

08. 다시한번 그는  a wonderful listener / 배우자에 대한 마음
07. detachment means 'Let it go', 'to separate from it now'
06. Morrie always made good peace
05. 가족을 사랑하는 마음, 가족을 통해 "사랑"에 대해 깨달은 그 마음
04. 긍정적이며 어려운 상황에서도 의미를 찾았던 그 마음
03. 처한 상황에서만 볼 수 있는 것들을 깨달을 수 있는 지혜 That's a unique way of looking at it
     이미 내 인생에 있는 좋은 것에 집중하기 concentrate on all the good things still in my life
02. 삶에 대한 진지한 질문들을 나름대로 정리할 수 있는 것
01. 삶에 대한 모리교수의 태도 / Morrie had always been a wonderful listener

기억에 남는 문장

If you don't respect the other person, you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
If you don't know how to compromise, you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
If you can't talk openly about what goes on between you, you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
And if you don't have a common set of values in life, you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
Your values must be alike.